I've tried several times now to write a Christmas recap, and each time I give up and delete it. I get too long winded. I get too whiny. I have too many pictures to add. But still, when I delete and think I'll just skip such a post, it keeps nagging at the back of my mind to do it. So I'll give it another quick try.
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Christmas seemed lacking to me this year, like I'm still waiting for it to happen. There was nothing wrong with it really. It was just . . . I don't know. I had a ton of time off work because I had vacation days to use up before the end of the year. We didn't put a tree up because of Minion, the ADHD kitty. I didn't even get my tons of other decorations out, only a few minor, easy things to remind us it was indeed Christmastime. We had our outdoor lights and decorations up early, just waiting to be turned on after Thanksgiving, but in the end were disappointed in how we did them this year.
Minion - The Grinch Who Stole Christmas
We made the decision to cut way back on who we shopped for and sent cards to. This was hard for me because I love to do both, but it's gotten to the point where we were give give giving to EVERYONE and getting nothing in return. I know, I know . . . it's better to give than to receive. But I think you all know what I mean, when you wonder why you bother sometimes. And I still LOVE Christmas cards, good old fashioned Christmas cards, but it seems so many people have switched to simple text greetings or e-cards, or nothing. We did get a few more cards this year than we have the last couple years but it's still a bummer to see how this tradition is dying away. (Or maybe it's just the people we know?!)
My favorite Christmas card this year. The camera doesn't do justice to all the sparkly beauty.
I listened to more Christmas music. I watched more Christmas things on TV. I had my cards done and sent at a decent time. I had my shopping done and presents wrapped with plenty of time to spare. The lack of tree was, surprisingly, not bothering me. I nibbled Christmas candy throughout the month instead of holding back until closer to Christmas. I made Christmas cookies and a couple other Christmas treats.
Christmas Eve Day, we had hubby's side of the family over for ham dinner and exchanging gifts. We haven't done anything with his family on Christmas for years. I'm not overly close to my in-laws, have never really felt like one of them. I always feel like they tolerate me only because of who I'm married to, even though hubby insists I'm just being mental. Anyway, it was a nice enough afternoon and it did start to really feel like Christmas.
After the in-laws left, hubby and I took some things over to my mom's place, where my side of the family would be gathering for Christmas the next day. We helped her set up some tables and things, then decided to take her for a drive around town and look at all the houses decorated with lights. That was fun and I think she really enjoyed getting out and doing it.
Christmas Eve, we sort of just puttered around the house. Our 'adopted' third son Matt was here, of course. This is the second year he's stayed with us all the way through Christmas. Last year it was a bit awkward. This year it was just accepted. I don't have a problem with him being here but it seems a little sad that he didn't have any desire to be at his own home for Christmas. Seriously, he came over on the 23rd and stayed until late evening on the 26th. I would have been itching to see if Santa left me anything at home! But whatever, I guess, huh?
Even in their late teens, my boys would still get up in the night on Christmas Eve to check if Santa had come yet. The last two or three years though, they stay up half the night anyway playing video games so Santa no longer comes until early Christmas morning (whenever I get up, hehe). Doing it this way means I don't have to try and stay up longer than them anymore. And I still think it's more fun to be surprised on Christmas morning than to just put all presents out before.
We were all commenting on what to do in place of a Christmas tree. At this last minute, it just didn't seem right to not have one. I joked that I would draw one on paper and tape it to the wall. The menfolk thought this was an awesome idea so I found a coloring book type page online and printed it out. Matt volunteered to color it. This was scary enough that I dug one of the window decorations out of a box of decorations and taped that to the wall before Matt was done with hideously festive artwork. So in the end we had TWO trees. LOL!

Christmas morning, I was the first one up, of course. I piled all the gifts under our two trees, then hopped in the shower, hopped online, and waited for the menfolk to wake up. We actually had to wake Ty up later in the morning because we were all getting anxious to open our gifts. He was cranky the first few minutes but quickly got over it. We had fun opening everything. Shopping had been a lot easier this year, more mellow, and everyone seemed to really like everything for once. But then it was over and everyone was off to play with their new toys and it seemed like just another day.



My side of the family gathered at my mom's new apartment later Christmas Day. This was her first Christmas in this apartment, her first back in our hometown, and her first year in a long time that she was hosting. It just seemed like it should have been a perfect type of day. Hubby and I got there a bit early and found most everyone was already there. Ty and Casey were going to drop by later. It was a huge shock to see my one brother there since he tends to be an anti-social hermit and we haven't seen him at a family gathering in years. Not only was he there when we got there, but he stayed the hole darn time!
It was a full house, 20 of us. Tons of food. People mingling and talking. Pretty little Christmas tree. People taking pictures. We managed to get a family photo . . . my mom and all six of her kids . . . for the first time since, well, ever?! That was pretty cool.
Gifts were exchanged. More food was eaten. Some people left. Some of us dusted off the old family tradition of playing the board game Sorry. There was laughter and merriment.
And then it was over.
It was in the days AFTER Christmas that the lack of tree and decorations really started to bother me. Since I'm such a creature of habit, I wonder if all the changes we made this year changed the whole feel of the holiday for me. Again, there was nothing *bad* about my Christmas season, so I just don't know why it feels like I'm still waiting for it to happen. Even yesterday, hubby and I were driving to town and I would see that people still have their trees up and see the decorations on porches, and I would get that excited feeling in my stomach . . . exactly like Christmas is still just around the corner.
Weird.